05 December 2019

十年回首...


一瞬间已来到了2019年尾,回首凯欣与家人一同走过的甜,酸,苦,辣,真的是百般滋味在心头。凯欣今年已11岁了,留着一头乌黑卷曲的短发,脸上挂着一副眼镜和可爱的笑容,身高就快追到了妈妈。哇!好快哦,老二毅轩也已经8岁了。 凯欣换肝至今已有10年余了,此网页也有好一段时间没更新了。在这里,爸爸非常感激此网页的发起人,因为她的发起与呼吁,凯欣的手术费用在短时间内获得报社以及其他团体的配合支持之下才能够顺利筹足。人间有情,感恩所有在我们人生最艰难时刻给于我们最大扶持与帮助的家人,亲人,朋友,同事,教授,医生,护士,大众!因为您们,凯欣幸运能因换肝而重生!感激万分,感恩生命,感恩一切!感恩一路有您们!谢谢您们! 的确换肝之后的路真是可以说荆棘密布,一关关,一重重的挑战再加上凯欣的坚强,勇敢和毅力才能够一一的克服。也因为如此,使我们在人生的路途上有很大的领悟和懂得什么叫面对,什么叫接受,什么叫处理,什么叫放下。渐渐地我们的人生观也跟着改变了。当这一念开始转变之后,我们的经历与凯欣的成长也跟着起了变化。。。 自凯欣在2009年7月19日换了肝之后,一直纷纷扰扰她数年的是胆道流畅的问题。这问题时常会导致她发烧进院吊抗生素和影响其它肝指数的稳定性,我和太太陪伴她入院,进出新加坡国大医院检查与治疗更是无数次。不过,我和太太依旧如常地工作,积极地面对,老二也在2011年诞生了,因为我们深信这一切的发生将会成为过去。当别人看作是一种负担,我们却看作是一个挑战,一股磨炼。正如孟子所言: 天降大任于斯人,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨,饿其体肤。。。 回到凯欣5岁那一年,即是2013年头,她的肝指数再次不寻常地升高,于是新加坡国大医生马上安排了一系列的检查,发现了肝藏里的胆管肿胀了。经过商讨后需要用PTC技术把这胆结石清除掉,我俩就把老二留在家由爷爷,奶奶和褓母看顾,然后带着小凯欣上“战场”去了。 虽说PTC是一个小型手术,但是也需要全身麻醉,我俩再次推着小凯欣进到这间非常寒冷和设备齐全的医疗室。接近超过一小时的时间,医务人员已作了胆石清除的工作,可是从2D图像看到胆管还是肿胀,胆石并未完全清除。所以需再安排做第二次的PTC清除疗程,也就是说小凯欣还需再踏进医疗室。 几天后,凯欣再次送进同样的医疗室,可是她这次并没这么容易的被麻醉,因为她的身体已适应了上次的剂量,麻醉师只好提升剂量,我俩就一直在旁哄着小凯欣,好让她慢慢地睡着。从她的眼神,她完全没有恐惧,因她深深地相信有父母陪伴在侧,一切都会没事,“父母心安,孩子平安”。 同样的,医疗团队在第二次作出最大努力的清除,详细的医疗报告需要等半天时间才能够确定胆石是否完全地被清除?午后答案终于揭晓了,从图像看还是有残留的胆石存在。凯欣的主诊医生教授并不满意,他要的是100%地清除,一劳永逸的解决这问题。这时PTC的医生看见小凯欣又要再次做同样的清除治疗便提出了建议,他要求与整个团队用时商讨,并同时让小凯欣回国回家休息。我俩也接受这样的安排,便欣慰地收拾行李然后长途驱车回家。不过,小凯欣腹部的PTC管子还得保留住,小凯欣必需定时到医院清洗伤口和检查以防发炎。坚强和勇敢的小凯欣回到家之后就一如以往的与毅轩在一起玩,虽然身上还吊着管子,她丝毫疼痛与疲倦都没有,这小孩太棒了! 等了一星期后,国大医疗团队有了方案,安排一星期后让小凯欣到新加坡治疗。此治疗方案是从未使用在胆管结石的个案上。然而,在多方的配合之下,医疗团队用了影像光管置入腹部的引导管,终于清清楚楚的发现了一堆胆结石。接着他们用激光镭射把胆石击碎,再用水把碎石冲出大肠。整个疗程从寻找,击碎,到冲洗用了将近一个半小时,这时在等侯室的我们看见小凯欣从手术室推出时有如释重负的感觉,心里慨叹着凯欣又经历了一场的战斗,希望接下来一切都会顺利和康宁。 在这短短几个月的时间里,我们又再次地成长了,领悟了,明白了,放下了更多,只要心存善念,无论是顺境或逆境,善缘或恶缘,都是好境界和好因缘。另外还有美国夏威夷修蓝博士的四句话,不可思议的内在力量,“对不起,请原谅我,谢谢你,我爱你”...

17 March 2014

Please help Elynna Cheah


It’s 2014. Chinese New Year festive has just gone not so far, and we just stepped into month of March. 12 Mar afternoon, I have received a call from a mother (who got my mobile no. from her facebook’s friend) said that her daughter was diagnosed Biliary Atresia and failed Kasai operation and need to carry out liver transplant as soon as possible. It is very unfortunate to hear this kind of news and I had tried my best to help...

22 November 2013

Grow...


Almost two years The Lokes never update this blog. First of all, Kai Xin is grow up well and she has gone through many round of treatments after liver transplant done in 2009 i.e. rejection treatments; viral infection treatments; stent removal procedure in year 2012; biliary stone removal in year 2013. Every treatment on her,...

04 February 2011

Gong Xi Fatt Cai & Happy Holiday


Wishing everyone a Fortune Lunar New Year! May the year of this Golden Rabbit brings you greater success, luck, joy, health and prosperity!祝各位新年快乐,万事如意,身体健康。 恭贺新禧!兔年吉祥开心!The Lokes FamilyNote: All comments are moderated which is why your comment will not appear immediately. Hence, you do not need to submit your comment more than on...

19 December 2010

MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011 !!!


It’s the time to greet all my family members, relatives, friends, colleagues and others who we never met before but they have gave us a big support during The Lokes’s toughest days. MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011!!! Kai Xin is growing up as a normal kid, eat-play-sleep. Nowadays, she has another role in our family “housekeeping commander”,...

31 October 2010

Kai Xin is TWO!


Once a year there is a very special day, 22 Oct is the Kai Xin's precious day...Time fly very fast, Kai Xin is TWO!She has received many many gifts, presents and great wishes from families, relatives and friends...We have organized a small and warm birthday celebration party cum families gathering on last Sunday (Her actual birthday is on...

Kai Xin Transplanted 1 Year (YEAH...)


It has been few months The Lokes didn’t update the blog, because daddy and mummy are very busy working in day time and taking care Kai Xin in the night time. Flash back to the month of July, Kai Xin was admitted NUH to undergo PTC (Percutaneous Transhepatic Cholangiogram) procedure for stent removal. The reason to carry out the procedure...
 

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